Tag: Marriage

  • Video: Estate Planning for Children

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    Hi, it’s Andy Stautz at Stautz Law. I’m back today with another estate planning talk on estate planning for children. Not you know, for children, they can’t do estate planning, but for your children, estate planning around children.  

    And this is in some way a follow up to [my other video talks] “when to revise your estate plan” and “estate planning for young adults” because you know, usually having your first child or having your, you know, successive children is something that’s happening to you, it’s a big life event, you know, as a young adult. And it has estate planning consequences.  

    So Step 1 is: Your children are very important heirs in the eyes of the law. So even if you’re… well… “Even if you’re married”… if you are married, and you have children, you might want every – all your property to go to your spouse, but actually your children are entitled to half of it!  

    That’s convenient when you are older and your children are adults, but it is very inconvenient when you have minor children. So when you’ve got a baby. If something happens to you the very next day. You know, half of your property is not going to your spouse. It’s going to your newborn. And then you’ve got 18 years of property guardianship to deal with. Which is tedious, not to mention expensive.  

    So. The best plan is at at the very, very least have a will to override that intestate share. Right, to make sure that your property goes just to adults and not to minor children.  

    Better still is to have a revocable trust with your spouse, if you have one. You know, joint trusts. Or on your own if not. Because that gives you way more control over how your property passes to your minor children. Or major children. What a revocable trust can do is stage an inheritance over time. It can limit or condition an inheritance on certain life events. Umm. It can keep your children from having to have a guardian in a probate proceeding. All of which are good things for most people.  

    You know, you might have special concerns, but in general it’s useful to most parents to say, OK well, you know, discretionary distributions for college expenses, you know, lump sum at age 25 or half at 25, half at 30, because what you don’t want to do is have minor children responsible for large sums of money, responsible for property when they can’t legally take action about it, and also you probably want to avoid the situation where your child turns 18 and all of a sudden they come into a big inheritance. 

    Because while generational wealth is usually great, it can also ruin lives if it’s given at the wrong time and under the wrong conditions.  

    So just to recap, you know, the possible variations of your your family situation and your children are basically endless. But the two big takeaways are: 1) have some plan in place because the 50% intestate share is really inconvenient. 2) Your plan should probably include a trust if you want to do anything more complicated than just dump money on your children at 18.  

    So that’s the long and short of it. Look at it as a childcare expense. You know, it costs money up front, but it’s a prudent decision to guard against all the crazy things that can happen if you don’t.  

    So again, a topic that requires personal planning, but that gives you kind of an idea of of what to look at. You can book a planning meeting with me online. You can give me a call.  

    Congratulations. If you just had kids, that’s great. Look forward to talking to you soon. Thanks and bye.

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  • Video: Estate Planning after Divorce

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    Hi folks, it’s Andy Stautz at Stautz Law. I’m back today talking about estate planning. Today’s topic is estate planning and divorce. Divorce is a big moment in estate planning because it really changes the legal priority of your relationships, right? Your spouse was number one person in the eyes of the law — your ex-spouse or soon to be ex-spouse, you know, you’re changing those relationships. So during a divorce, immediately after a divorce, you need to revise your estate plan to account for those changes.  

    So the default rules try to handle it, right? because they know you don’t want your ex-spouse being the same person in your plan, in your property disposition, as they were before.  

    But it’s not complete, right? There are some things that happen, like, accidentally that you really need to pay attention to. 

    So. Your ex-spouse, upon divorce, your will provisions in favor of your former spouse are cancelled. I.C. 29-5-1-8. Same thing with revocable trusts, canceled. But not with irrevocable trusts! I.C. 30-4-2-15. And not with life insurance designations or retirement account beneficiary designations. But then transfer on death property deeds, yes, the law does automatically cancel those. I.C. 32-17-14.

    You know if you had an estate plan where your spouse was everything. It’s going to go to pieces after your divorce because some of them will automatically be cancelled, but some of them won’t be. So you should revise that. And make sure, you know, it’s all undone. Everything, everything you want undone is undone.  

    So I’ll try to put those citations you know in the. In the text version of this. But it’s oddball, so you know, you can’t just assume that “Oh, we’re divorced now . . . my ex-spouse doesn’t get any.”  

    The other big point to keep in mind is that the law, the default change in the law, only happens on the date of the dissolution decree or annulment. So while your divorce is pending, you know, you probably don’t want your soon to be ex-spouse, you know, to be in the same position. But the law hasn’t caught up to your family situation yet, so especially if your divorce is going to take a while or you’re worried about, you know, things happening in the interim, you know, revise it in advance. OK.  

    And lastly, even where the law automatically takes care of straightening things out, it’s still good form to, like, go back, restate your will, restate your trust. And take it out. You know, update it. Take out the references to your former spouse as a beneficiary. Note that the marriage existed, but ended in divorce.  

    Is it legally necessary? No, maybe not, but it’s protective of you. It reduces the risk of a conflict later and conflicts are expensive. So you should be revising everything anyway.  

    And lastly, you know, you probably want to rethink your entire scheme of disposition after your divorce, because now instead of being married and jointly responsible for any children or jointly responsible for your parents, your relatives, whatever, it becomes kind of “just you,” in a sense. So maybe it’s time to set up a trust for your children, because you can’t assume that your property is going to your now ex-spouse. So, you know, you might need to use documents in a different way… to sort of stand in for what you used to rely on this other person for.  

    So if you’re getting a divorce, you should think about your estate plan. You should get one if you don’t have one. You should make the revisions. To make sure it works like you want. So that’s quick overview. Your situation is almost certain to be special and different, so that’s why we have initial planning meetings. You can book online. You can call me, and I’d be happy to talk about what you specifically need 

    That’s all for today. Thank you very much and hope to talk to you soon. 

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